Saturday, 21 February 2015

Women protect abusive husbands

Women worldwide suffer from domestic violence in one way or another. The majority of these women are afraid to report their abusive husbands as they are the breadwinners in the family. They sacrifice to live with abusive partners for the sake of the children even if they no longer have the love and affection for their partners.

Employed married women will pitch at work on a Monday with a swollen face  or a bruised neck but prefer to lie so as to protect their husbands. Women always fins a silly story to ay and one of the common statements is “I slipped walking down the corridor.” 

Most of these women even lie to the doctors when they seek medical attention, coming up with a silly story because they cannot imagine a family without a father. 

These are some of the questions a woman would consider before reporting her abusive husband:

How will I tell the children that their father is in jail because he beat me up?

How will they treat me knowing that I am the reason why he is in jail?

How will we survive because I am unemployed?

What will my in-laws say when they know I am the reason why their son is in jail?  


Domestic violence is real and in some cases has led to death. Women should take a stand so as to put an end to it. It has been discovered in Zimbabwe that women are fond of protecting abusive husbands. Follow the link for more  here

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